There is something i would like you to know sooner or later. You might have realized it by now, but anyways…
Your father and I had the deepest love I have seen between a couple for one another. This very deep love didn’t happen overnight. We worked on it. We needed one another. We had extremely hard times. I was mentally and emotionally very unstable during my early twenties and late teenage years. Your father helped me, tolerated me, loved me. It all passed. Partly to save our marriage and partly for other reasons we immigrated to Canada. This was the best decision I have ever made up to this date.
Well, to be fair my mom helped us a lot. She believed in our love, and pursuaded my father and my grandparents. My family never asked for anything of financial value from your dad’s family. Again, to be fair, your dad’s family also went easy with some of their very strong beliefs that I didn’t accept at all. It was a big deal. We had very fundamental disagreements. But after all, it was the love between your dad and myself to make it all happen.
I am not sure who you will end up with. I even do not care about your sexual orientation, if you are a homosexual, or a straight person. But whoever it is, there are two very critical matters to remember: the two of you should respect one another, and the two of you should (really) care for one another.
And again, do not forget; love and happiness doesn’t happen over night. Both parties should work on it.
If I am born for another 100,000 times, I will marry your dad in all my future lives.